Wednesday 7 October 2020

Types of Conversations that are better than Gossip

Types of Conversations that are better than Gossip


Healthy conversations are uplifting, light hearted and leaves you in bliss. Whereas gossip can excite you temporarily but it leaves behind a bitter and low feeling. Gossip creates misunderstanding and stress. Be around people you can engage with positively.



Discussed below are types of conversations that are terrific for self development. 


Individual goals - Discussing dreams and aspirations leads to better understanding of self. It is valuable to understand how others dream as well. It strengthens the bond between people.


Personal Values - How to define and live by them. Different people have different values such as honesty, trust, love and faith. Sharing values helps in personal development.


Learning from past experiences - Past experiences provide a blueprint to how we behave now, both good and bad experiences are excellent for sharing and learning from.


Stories - Fiction and non-fiction. Storytelling is a very good way to engage verbally. Sorties help connect with new people.  


Discussing bottled up feelings - Discussing feelings lead to emotional growth. It helps to deal with trauma and stress. We can find relief and happiness in such discussions.


Funny incidents - The ones that will make our bellies hurt. Easiest to start with, fastest way to bond with people. Sharing joy and laughter at its best.


Sharing knowledge - Philosophies, politics, science, art, education and everything about the universe. Wildly engaging in terms of content. Interesting and best for self development.


Creative Ideas - Leaving one motivated and excited. Mutually helpful and grossly engaging conversation. Creative ideas help in career and life growth.


Engaging in healthy conversations is beneficial for mind and body. It is healthy, keeps one occupied. It provides better bonding between individuals. 




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